Sabtu, 13 November 2010

Build a Friendship

Nowadays what people say about we who have no friend??
Yup ... Friend or tomodachi in japaness language is one of our needed. They come to be with us , communicate with us and even for the best friend they're ready to help us when we get into trouble. Life is not meant without friend. We could live without any love but not without friend. They give us love beside our parent. Okay now we have to know , how important and precious friend for us.... so don't waste them.

WHAT A FRIEND IS??
" A friend in need is friend indeed. Masaka no toki no tomo koso honto no tomo. Teman diwaktu susah adalah teman sesungguhnya"
"Friends are God's way taking care of us" Kahlil Gibran
"Friend is a single soul dwelling in two bodies" Greek Proveto
"A true friend is a forever friend"
"A good friend never offends"
"One loyal friend is worth the thousand relative"

I think friend is someone that never kill our figure and always pricing every of ours. We can get a friend in anywhere anytime maybe we might go to on event and knowing new friends there but remember what a friend we get it depends where we get it. A good place will tend to give us a good friend too.

HOW TO START A FRIENDSHIP??
  • Go to an event like book exhibition, seminar or a concert ALONE without anyfriend . It's very effective to meet someone new.
  • Look his eyes and aim your feet to him. it mean you that you interested to know him more. 
  • Say "HI" friendly and show your name first then you can ask what their name.
  • Give some common question , like where you live, where you school but don't ask about what their job or business for the first time you know them. It's impolite manner.
  • Give a prissy of their cloth or their bag and tell about your self , if you feel comfort and connect with them you can continue to explore each other.
  • Make a plan to meet them again in other time and tell them that you really enjoy your chatting before you go on.
When we get a friend, keep caring to them , we do have to respect them. Listen " Treat your friends as you do your picture and place them in the best light" Jennie Jerome Chrchill
It's true that we have to grow a friendship so they could be our best friend not just a buddy.

HOW TO TREAT YOUR FRIEND??
  • Seek a friend that in same level with you "Just walk beside me and be my friend" Albert Camus
  • Don't give a negative thinking of them.
  • Open your heart/mind widely for defererence.
  • Knowing what they feel and help them when they nee.
  • Accept them the way they are , though they have a disable.
  • Make a strong friendship and be stronger everytime.
to be continue.....

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